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I think that livejournal is a kind of constructed universe. We all live here in a kind of stylized dialogue, which is "real" and "not real" all at once. I have no desire to make "real life" resolutions, because I know what I am supposed to do, and I need to just darn well do it, rather than go on about it.

But maybe Livejournal presents an opportunity to make resolutions, as resistant as I am to New Year's resolutions this year.

Therefore, here are my LiveJournal resolutions:

1. I want to make more observations and fewer pronouncements in my posts this year. At the same time, I want my posts to range wild and free, across a world of topics and opinions. I want to break the chains of recurrent themes, and seek out new topics.

2. I want to make my comments more resonant with the posts, and less debating or cheerleading. I want to be as postive as I can, without being saccharine. I want to remember that other people have radically different views of the purpose of comments in their journals than I have of the purpose of commments in mine.

3. When I read something nice, I want to comment to show I read it, even if I don't have something cool to say.

4. I want to hit the random key more often, the way I did when I was first on LiveJournal. I found the most fascinating journals this way.

5. I want to recognize that so often the written word without the nuance of facial expressions can give rise to misunderstandings, and I want to avoid getting too disappointed when this occurs.

6. I want to begin a side journal in which I write something more consciously "literary".

7. I want to continue to use LiveJournal as a means of expanding my knowledge of the real world, and avoid any tendency to use LiveJournal as a basis for avoiding confronting the real world.

8. I want to write more things about fossils.

9. I want to catalog for myself here the things I wish to remember. I may even catalog here some things I wish to forget.

10. I want to post pictures and graphics I create in my journal, and to put together a better personal website page.

11. Once in a long while, I want to check the spelling on a comment.

12. More frequently, I want to edit before I first hit post.

The trend for people I know has been to leave LJ and just put up their own personal weblog websites. I think I'll stay here, as it is less trouble. I like these resolutions, because all but 10. seem easily achievable.

Date: 2003-01-02 05:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jayasankarvs.livejournal.com
Fossils? Why fossils?
From: [identity profile] kelquestor.livejournal.com
I know what I am supposed to do, and I need to just darn well do it

The resolutions I will endeavour to read tomorrow when lyrics about rollerskating in parakeet cages and echoes of Ladysmith Black Mambazo subside.
'Night.

Date: 2003-01-02 07:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gurdonark.livejournal.com
Somebody suggested that I do so, and I thought the suggestion absolutely a good one.

Date: 2003-01-02 07:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thiscafe.livejournal.com
excellent 'resolutions'. A continued new year!!

Fossils! Yes!

Date: 2003-01-02 11:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] salaryman.livejournal.com
a la John McPhee, perhaps?

fossils are cool.

S.

Date: 2003-01-02 07:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] microbie.livejournal.com
This is a good idea. I resolve to write and read in French on LJ more, especially since I'm not going to Europe this year. And I still hope to post more pictures, despite the broken scanner.

Date: 2003-01-02 10:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] auntiesiannan.livejournal.com
fossils!

I like ammonites. :)

number 3

Date: 2003-01-03 02:27 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nacowafer.livejournal.com
May I adopt #3 for myself, too? I think I would also amend to say, "When I read something heart-wrenching, I want to comment to show I care, even if I don't have something cool to say." Aack! That sounds sappy, but I so appreciate the comments I receive in my own journal. I don't comment enough in others', I think.

Looking forward to your observations...

Re: number 3

Date: 2003-01-03 07:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gurdonark.livejournal.com
The heart-wrenching ones are the hardest, I think, because what can one ever "say"? I also like to comment to the simple ones that I usually say "nice post" to myself, but don't always comment as much.

Date: 2003-01-03 07:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gurdonark.livejournal.com
Ammonites, trilobites, all those bites are fossilized heaven.

Date: 2003-01-03 07:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gurdonark.livejournal.com
I think it is so cool you nurture your French skills in ways like that.

Date: 2003-01-03 07:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gurdonark.livejournal.com
Thanks, and a good 2003 to you as well!

Re: Fossils! Yes!

Date: 2003-01-03 07:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gurdonark.livejournal.com
Fossils are really cool. I want to seek out local fossil resources.

Date: 2003-01-04 08:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] purejuice.livejournal.com
this is really very interesting, and the first time i've ever encountered someone attempting to be "present" or mindful online. admittedly i'm quite a newbie. i think about online ethical issues a lot, and also, online friends/issues instead of meatspace ones.

there are people writing on LJ things i'd never hear in meatspace, and i love the tone of their voices and what they say. i once went on a trip to cuba with a bunch of college kids. as it was a class, led by a professor, and the kids were rich and spoiled, we were required to meet every night as a class and read our journals. i've never had a better trip -- the three old people (including me) and the 14 or 15 cute kids, each experiencing 18 cubas a day. and of course they got into trouble and places we did not, and we, speaking spanish, did the same.

i love what other people do and think. and would considerably be less without the peculiar, spiky, guarded and yet open intimacy this new forum affords.

have i linked you to this (http://www.livejournal.com/talkread.bml?journal=reive&itemid=715046) conversation? i've printed it out, am pondering an essay on this netiquette and Being issues.

bon voyage and thank you.

Date: 2003-01-04 04:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gurdonark.livejournal.com
Fascinating thread--these types of debates (i.e., that participated in during the commments you cite) are very hard to have in this setting,but so many of us feel impelled to have them.

We all want to be understood, and it's so hard to be understood.
But I find most fascinating those times when even with perfect understanding, profound disagreements would exist. So many political debates don't involve different outlooks, only different assumptions under analysis. But a real difference in people--very odd, very novel.

Re:

Date: 2003-01-04 06:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] purejuice.livejournal.com
write on.
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