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gurdonark ([personal profile] gurdonark) wrote2004-06-17 04:46 am

sandwiches with friends

Last night I went to dinner with [personal profile] microbie, whom I'd met when she was in Dallas last year, as well as [personal profile] msggoat and [profile] miscelena, whom I'd never met before. They were all great--it was a fun evening. Sadly, I just missed the chance to meet [profile] arcanum_dogma, whom I hope to meet next time I'm in town.

We had a great time, comparing notes (in a good way) about sealing wax and cabbages and kings, although we did not discuss sealing wax or cabbages or kings literally. I love it when four people are quite different in many ways, and yet really speak the same language.

I always marvel how many nice people are among my friends' list, as opposed to other internet outlets in which the ratio of "trollish folks" often seems much higher. I think that the secret is to write a boring, suburban journal--but it probably is just to be grateful for nice friends.

I find, as the years go on, I have the talkative nature of an outgoing person, but the inner reactions of a shy person.
I woke up this morning saying to myself: "great interaction--I only put my foot in my mouth 43 times or so", but that's the kind of self-talk that seems to me a substitute for just living.

I am a person who has a lot of theories about every trivial thing. I often find myself elucidating them at the drop of a hat in groups. You know, the silly stuff--like the way I often buy CDs now only from acts which sell less than 100 copies of each release. At least I spared the group my theory that all my personality traits can be attributed to childhood rubella and the local DDT truck.

My dad is the greatest, but when I come upon him in conversation with someone, he is apt to be holding forth in elaborate detail about the latest cannon emplacement he has erected in his front yard, or his efforts to dig for alluvial precious stones. I suppose I am like that, too--except my cannons are wielded by guppies, or play chess with Death, win, and then turn and sing play songs of triumph on a kazoo.

[identity profile] lonestarslp.livejournal.com 2004-06-17 04:51 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry Guy, but your personality traits are genetic--they keep showing up in your nephews! :) Glad you are having fun.
ext_3407: squiggly symbol floating over water (8 months)

[identity profile] hummingwolf.livejournal.com 2004-06-17 06:18 am (UTC)(link)
except my cannons are wielded by guppies, or play chess with Death, win, and then turn and sing play songs of triumph on a kazoo.

I like your cannons! Now I'm wondering if Gurdonark's Cannons have a CD available.

[identity profile] poetbear.livejournal.com 2004-06-17 09:14 am (UTC)(link)
"At least I spared the group my theory that all my personality traits can be attributed to childhood rubella and the local DDT truck."

this reminds me of James McMurtry's songs, and my own childhood!
both my son and i have shingles(courtesy of childhood measles).
in my case, they didn't get all the kids their Dip-Tet when they
were in diapers. my son had all his immunizations, but had measles
so bad we were tempted to call him 'spot'.

i think that any forthcoming Gurdonark CDs should definitely
feature some of your dad's cannons firing, too!

~paul

oh, how we laughed...

[identity profile] chevrefeuilles.livejournal.com 2004-06-17 10:15 am (UTC)(link)
i do remember laughing a lot last night, so indeed, i had a great time talking to you. i'm already looking forward to your next visit.

- L

[identity profile] gurdonark.livejournal.com 2004-06-18 08:41 am (UTC)(link)
I've love to have cannon fire!

I have never gotten shingles, but I do remember getting all kinds of measles.

Re: oh, how we laughed...

[identity profile] gurdonark.livejournal.com 2004-06-18 08:42 am (UTC)(link)
It was a great evening. Great to meet you! I had not been to that area in years, but I hope I get to come back before too awful long.

[identity profile] gurdonark.livejournal.com 2004-06-18 08:42 am (UTC)(link)
It was fun, and yes, they are either genetic or they are some sad legacy of generationally taught behaviors!

[identity profile] gurdonark.livejournal.com 2004-06-18 08:43 am (UTC)(link)
I am already thinking of possibilities along the 1812 overture line.

[identity profile] poetbear.livejournal.com 2004-06-18 08:49 am (UTC)(link)
both Brian and i had measles and chicken pox. he had
all his immunizations, but some of them didn't seem
to work. doesn't your dad fire his cannons?
~paul

[identity profile] gurdonark.livejournal.com 2004-06-20 09:01 am (UTC)(link)
He never fires them. I think that requires all kind of permits and such. He just displays them, relics of something long past.

[identity profile] poetbear.livejournal.com 2004-06-20 11:26 am (UTC)(link)
hmmmm. i see. do you suppose he'd get a
permit for some Fourth of July? then you
could record them.~paul